SM is a sexual game where both parties agree to achieve pleasure through pain. During sadistic love, one party plays the role of the abuser and the other plays the role of the victim. During sadistic love, there is a feeling of losing oneself, merging with sexual partners, merging with the entire universe, combining pain and pleasure, and ultimately reaching a state of “”ecstasy””.
SM is not a pathological condition but a dual physiological and psychological need. Our body will secrete some hormones to suppress pain when feeling it, and the main role is played by endorphins. Imagine eating chili peppers, whether the hotter they are, the more refreshing they are. This is actually the effect of endorphins. It can relieve pain and accumulate pleasure, which in the eyes of the old SM is simply unparalleled joy.
SM is an expression of ‘seeking self-identity’. This is a professional psychological concept with complex specific meanings. Interested students can refer to it as a process of building self-awareness. However, due to differences in individual spiritual needs, there are both S and M.